Supporting Each Other In The Valley

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Finding Healing Together

New Roots Club

Freedom In The Storm

New Roots Club


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What Started New Roots? Being thrust into the process myself... Several months ago my world was turned upside down.

New roots simply put, is a place for the women that genuinely are lost in the cracks of chaos when their husbands commit the unthinkable.  Wives of sex offenders.  We are the ones that are left in shock, with children, PTSD, bills, and the rest of life to ponder.  Fresh on this journey I am an anonymous mother of 4 boys that were all under the age of 8 when this started.  While trying to hire an attorney, sell the house, relocate my children and find resources for the man I wasn’t really sure I still loved, I realized there wasn’t a lot of support for wives who chose to stay, or at least chose to support their spouse through the process.  So here we are.

Hurt Women or Healing Women?

We are hurting women, but we are also healing women. We are not alone. Here, I would like us to be able to support one another while we wrestle through the tough decisions that are ahead. It’s a hard process, but it is so much better when you have a community that is willing to walk with you through it. Share your stories, share resources. I found that a lot of links, sites, and organizations are very outdated. I know it can be frustrating. Just hold on. Any little bit that we can pick up and share, will help to take the edge off of the next hurting sister.

The Husband’s Offense

My intentions for this site are not by any means to excuse anyone for committing the crime of putting their hands on, or exploiting innocent children. It doesn’t matter whether it was in person or online, wrong is wrong, and the innocent need justice, and they need to be protected. I myself have been in the shoes of those children, and I know many that have. I also know that unless these men are complete sociopaths, they are also human, and have very real wounds themselves. They need treatment, they need help, and unfortunately they waited until it came down to this before they were willing to share anything with you. The road to recovery for them will be incredibly rough. Making a come back when you are considered the scum of society is never easy. Who will be with them when they try? ... Although it doesn't have to be you, could it be?

Recent Articles

The most recent articles related to pushing through this storm.

The Bail Out… Part 2

I sat in my car and waited. By then it was about 3 pm. I listened to the Christian radio station and fiddle with my phone as the time slowly ticked by. Now it was four, I had my eyes fixed on the area the bondsman told me my husband would be released from. Was

The Bail Out… Part 1

Several days after my husband’s first call concerning his charges being exposed, I was dealing with a full-blown manifestation of my third born having hands foot, and mouth disease. None of my other children had ever come down with the illness. I suppose in my ignorance I assumed that it was another one of those
My husband’s child pornography charges got exposed. I had just spoken with him days before. Everything seemed to be as okay as it could have been considering the circumstances. During the phone conversation that day he told me that his cellmate had popped the lock on their cell. This happened when they were supposed to

Reach Out To Us

Stay Connected In The Journey. Please feel free to contact me. Submit your story. Share your experiences. I will respond to you as soon as I can. I am in a sense now a single mom of four, so Pardon My Dust.